Identity

“A person’s identity is not to be found in behaviour, nor – important
though this is – in the reactions of others, but in the capacity to keep a
particular narrative going. The individual’s biography, if she is to
maintain regular interaction with others in the day-to-day world,
cannot be wholly fictive. It must continually integrate events which
occur in the external world, and sort them into the ongoing ‘story’
about the self.”

Giddens, A. Modernity and Self-Identity: Self and Society in the Late Modern Age (1991)
Oxford: Polity Press. Pg 54.